Wednesday, 16 February 2011

31 Days - Day #13- Your 5 Favorite Books and Why

Geez, another toughy! No, it's not that I'm not an avid reader, I am...just not always reading books. I read all the time, every morning in fact. But with soooo many resources on-line these days, it's rare for me to spend the money to buy a book when I can just read it on-line, you know?

But I'll give it a shot. Okay, here are my top 5 favorite books:

5. "Wild Dog" but I have no idea who the author is. 

It's a tiny little paperback book I remember reading back when I was in 4th-5th grade, and I remember reading this book over and over and over again. It was incredibly thrilling, exciting, and unbelievably sad at times. I can still see the artwork on the cover the of the book so cleary in my mind. It looked very similar to this cover:
That's not the same book I'm talking about, but the illustration is fairly close. I think I may still have a copy of the book I remember buried somewhere in a box in my garage with a bunch of old childhood belongings.

The book I remember was one of the very first books I actually remember reading, and feeling for the first time a love of reading, being so excited and at the edge of my seat as I couldn't wait to read each and every page. It brings back fond memories of early childhood reading and my love of learning.

4. "The Snowman" by Raymond Briggs.
I received a copy of this tiny little book for Christmas 1990 from my very first boss, Russell, at my very first job, working as a cashier at a plant nursery in Maryland called Meadows Farms.

The book has no words, it's a still shot series of framed photos type of book, there's 175 beautiful illustrations that tell the story of a little boy who builds a snowman that comes to life and tells all the adventures they have together.

The book is one of my favorites not only for its simple and beautiful story, but also because my boss wrote a nice message in the front of the book thanking me for being such a wonderful employee, so it also reminds me of being 14 years old and all the memories from working that 1st job.

3. "God's Leading Lady" by T.D. Jakes.
When I quit working full-time back in August 2003, I received a copy of this book as part of the parting gifts my employees bought for me to say goodbye. It was given to me by a lovely young woman whom I mentored during the earliest years of her career. She was incredibly inspired by me as a mentor (a very humbling position to find myself in!).

I left my big corporate accounting job and put my career on hold to instead lead my life as a full-time mommy because my job required tons of late nights, overtime, and travel, which meant I had a family who barely ever saw their mom. It broke my heart to be away from my family so much, so in 2003 I took a HUGE leap of faith that somehow we would still manage to pay our monthly bills and put food on the table without mommy bringing home a paycheck.

With all of my fears and anxieties about the unknowns of my future, and questioning whether or not this decision was a good one, it was the perfect timing for me to read this book! The main theme centers around trusting in God in times of major changes and believing in yourself as a strong and powerful woman.

2. My dad's personal journal.

No picture for this one, but back in the summer of 1996, my dad spent an entire month writing out a very personal journal by hand in a small black hardbound notebook. This book is one of my all time most cherished possession in my entire life!

He wrote about many details from what his childhood was like, his teen years, the time he spent in the Army, dating years, meeting and marrying my mom, many details about my grandparents and great-grandparents that I never met and otherwise would know absolutely nothing about if it weren't for the memories he wrote there.

This journal is incredibly honest, makes me laugh, and makes me cry deeply. My dad is an excellent writer, he writes in such a way that you can easily visualize everything he's talking about almost as if you were there. He writes with humor, with honesty, and at the time much of it was from a very interesting perspective as he has just finalized his divorce the year before, so there's a ton of sadness and heartache in those comments. [Side note: good news, after almost 8 years apart, my parents reconciled and remarried each other on their same original wedding anniversary and have been happily remarried now for about another 7 years].

No one in my family has known anything about this journal I received back in 1996. I recently shared it with my mom & younger sis last month when they came out to visit and I read it to them cover to cover. It took an entire day and more than an entire box of tissues for us to get through it.

The book ends as my dad is talking about the events of my birth, which means there's TONS more details that need to be written (because I have 2 younger siblings, and a LOT has happened since I was born back in 1975 that someday I want to convince my dad to journal before he's gone).

1. The Bible.

While I'm often a really bad person when it comes to cracking open my Bible to study, go through devotions, etc. it wouldn't be right for me to conclude this list of my favorite books with anything else.

There's no doubt that I'm a flawed follower of Christ, making mistakes often daily, but my faith still remains at the center of who I am, who I strive to be, and the example I try to lead. The Bible is the ultimate resource for me to learn more about God and to grow deeper and closer in my relationship with him.



Wow, this daily post turned out to be far more serious in nature than I honestly expected. But there you go, a little more insight into getting to know me.

Tuesday, 15 February 2011

31 Days - Day #12 - Write a Poem to Someone You Love

Hmmm...I'm not a poetry person...not at all. This challenge would seriously take me a very long time to do, and honestly I would probably hate the outcome.

So instead, how about I share the song (sort of a poem, it rhymes and all) that I sang to my husband the very first time I told him that I loved him?

It was when I got to the line that says, "tootsie roll I think I'm in love with you..." when I sang it real slowly, then stopped singing and looked at him, realizing for the first time that I was actually falling in love.

Weird sounding lyric, you say? Yeah, well, it's from a really old candy commerical for, you guessed it, tootsie rolls! Anybody actually remember it?

If not, watch this:




Going all the way back to 1977! Yeah, I'm a little bit old now. Okay, not too old yet, since I was only born 2 years before this commercial was actually made. And besides, you're as young as you act!

Monday, 14 February 2011

31 Days - Day #11 - Bucket List

Wow, given how much of a planner and futuristic thinker I am, trying to write down my bucket list could seriously take days, or even weeks!

My bucket list is constantly changing, and always being added to! There's a bagillion things I want to do in my life. Many of those things have to do with travel, all over the place, everywhere! With 5 kids we don't have many opportunities to travel (and couldn't afford them anyway!), so when we do find a rare chance to travel somewhere we love to go places that are totally new.

I love to spend time researching and planning future vacations for my family and some for just me and my husband. We love to find little hole in the wall delicious restaurants, spend time hiking or driving along beautiful scenic locations, and preferably all during times when the weather is warm, sunny, and matches the beautiful scenery around us. And most of the time we prefer to vacation/travel places that have water (lakes, oceans, etc.).

I'm a HUGE learner! I absolutely love to constantly learn new things, almost always am self taught in those new skills. I love to google lots of different kinds of how-to and DIY projects in a huge variety of categories, whether craft related, home improvements, fitness, baking, you name it!

I want to:

--- TRAVEL, TRAVEL, TRAVEL!!!!!
--- live in some other new and exciting places someday, 
--- live closer to my relatives,
--- learn how to knit (already know crochet and I can sew),
--- learn how to play the guitar,
--- go on a cruise with my husband,
--- go to Hawaii,
--- go about a million other tropical places with my husband,
--- site see through Europe,
--- get another tattoo (I have 2 and can't decide yet WHERE I want to put the next one. They're both very small and either hardly noticeable or in places only me and my husband see...for me, my tattoos are very personal in their meanings, not intended to show off to others),
--- run in a half and full marathon,
--- take my kids back east where I grew up on a HUGE historical trip so they can visit the White House, Washington Monument, Smithsonian, walk through the fields at Gettysburg, see Mount Rushmore and walk along the Chesapeake River, visit Amish Country in Pennsylvania, tour the Naval Academy & downtown Allentown, see the Liberty Bell, Williamsburg, see tons and tons history from my side of the family...basically all the tons of amazing things I grew up visiting.

--- and as I said, many, MANY more items on my bucket list. I can't wait to do them all!!!

Sunday, 13 February 2011

31 Days - Day #10- Songs you Listen to When...

 ...you are happy, sad, bored, hyped, mad:

Well, the truth is I'm really not a huge music person. It's one of the MANY things my husband and I do NOT have in common (it's ridiculous how totally opposite we are!).

He listens to music constantly, whereas I rarely listen to any music. When I'm driving in my car I'm usually listening to Air 1 radio, which is contemporary Christian rock music. The best part about their station is that I can listen to it along with my kids.

Sometimes I listen to music when I'm running (if I'm running by myself) and typically I try to listen to the fastest Christian rock songs I can find. So typically that means a lot of Skillet (one of my FAVORITE bands!!!), Relient K, Hawk Nelson, TFK, Stellar Kart, etc. Basically anything with a really fast beat to help push me to run faster.

When I'm sad I don't necessarily listen to any music, but one of my favorite sad songs that has helped me in times of great struggle is "In the Waiting" by Greg Long.

Several songs make me think of my husband, like Steven Curtis Chapman's "I Will Be Here" that he sang to me at our wedding, and "We Will Dance" that fits well now that we've been married for almost 17 years. I also think about my husband whenever I listen to a lot of sexy R&B. My husband sings, so I absolutely love to listen to him all the time...his voice is one of his most attractive features and I melt every time I hear him.

My husband thinks of me when he hears "Tough" by Craig Morgan, which closely depicts some of the life issues we've gone through, my busy life as a mom, and as a thyroid cancer survivor (6 years and counting!).

When I'm working around the house, if I'm not listening to Air 1 then I usually turn on 50's & 60's stations on Pandora, because I grew up listening to and LOVING oldies!!!! And I love that this generation of music is something that I can enjoy with my parents. We've had some really fun and memorable oldies sing-a-longs when we get together and those times are very special.

Saturday, 12 February 2011

31 Days - Day #9- Something You're Proud of in the Past Few Days

Completely unrelated to my shop, my oldest son just accomplished a pretty huge personal goal last weekend. It's a great big milestone in every child's life...extremely exciting for him, and nerve wracking (and expensive) for us as parents.

***My son just received his driver's license!!!***

He went through a month of driver's ed training last summer, spent the past 6 months driving with his learner's permit alongside mom and dad, and now he's passed all the tests and can drive all by his lonesome!
Look how all grown up he looks standing at the counter! I'm rolling my own eyes saying this, but even though he looks like a teenager, the truth is he's still my not so little anymore baby.
And while it's incredibly exciting to watch him go through each new milestone, it's also really scary as a parent to have to learn to let go more and more, esp. when you're so conditioned as a parent for so many years to be VERY protective of your children.
My son is a very good student, and he's incredibly responsible, but it was still kinda hard for both myself and my husband to watch him get into the car earlier tonight, start it up, and drive away...all by himself!
The smile across his face as he drove away was ENORMOUS! We smiled too, and made him promise to call us as soon as he arrived at his destination, which was less than 3 miles away.
We've joked about how much more help he'll be now (running down to the store to grab more milk, taking his siblings to sports practices, etc.) and I'm certainly looking forward to the help. But there's a whole new level of worry I'm gonna have to get used to every time he drives away.

I've always been incredibly proud of him. Man, sometimes being a parent is seriously tough stuff!

Friday, 11 February 2011

31 Days - Day #8- Short Term Goals this Month & Why

Short-term goals this month are pretty easy to jot down. My shop is brand new, so now that it's up and running, my goals for this month are to continue working on more products to finish & list for sale soon.

More specifically, the items I've received the most compliments on have been my plush stuffed monsters:

When my kids saw these monsters they went NUTS! So of course, I promised this first batch could belong to them and I would continue making more for my shop. Well, they're kind of time consuming to sew from start to finish, and 5 kids really fill up my days pretty well, so I need to find a way to better organize my days to set aside some specific time to sit down at my sewing machine and crank these out.

I'm also working on some mini spiral notepads, and I have lots of exciting plans for several other new products I can't wait to work on, but I don't think I'll get to them this month, maybe next.

Oh! And I just finished creating a facebook fan page and begging all my friends to come over and 'like' it so I won't feel like a total loser. 

Sometimes one of the biggest parts of opening up a new shop is all the initial set up work (web site, FB page, shop, all the packaging and labeling materials, business cards, etc.). And when you're really busy trying to get all of those things taken care of, it can feel as if there's not much time left to work on actually making your products.

So I'm glad to have a ton of my initial set up stuff finally completed and out of the way. Now it's on to lots more fun making more products!

Thursday, 10 February 2011

31 Days - Day #7- A Picture of someone/something that has had the Biggest Impact on You

Again, I have to share more than one photo, because it's far too difficult to choose just one. So let's go with the major areas of my life.

First, I'm a flawed follower of Christ, and I'm truly thankful for the many blessings I've received in my life and the grace I truly don't deserve.
Second, this man has been my best friend for 18 years and counting. Biggest impact? You betcha!
Next, these 4 are my whole world. 'Nuff said.